Part 1 —
Women’s Stories
17
Malaysia
New
economics and old customs: women suffer double discrimination
Helen Percival
This
story is based on Helen Percival's experiences of
staying with and talking to an Indian family in a small rubber estate town in Malaysia.
The names are fictitious, but the facts of the story are true.
Letchmi lives in a small town on the outskirts of
Kuala Lumpur. The town is in the centre of a large rubber plantation in which Letchmi's husband, Singam, works.
Letchmi has eight children, ranging in age from
twelve months to 17 years. Because of the family's economic difficulties, she
has to work at a nearby brick factory to supplement her husband's inadequate
income, leaving the three youngest children to fend for themselves
at home each day. Letchmi works breaking finished
bricks into mosaic-shaped pieces for decorative walls. She works, without
protection, under the hot sun for about seven hours each day — for an income of
about $M30Q1 per
month. Her husband earns about half that amount. When she returns
home she has no time to rest; she must do her household chores and prepare
dinner for the family. Her work is finished only after the youngest child has
been fed and put to sleep. Next day, she will wake at 5 a.m. to prepare
breakfast and lunch for her husband before he leaves.
When both parents are at work. Rani, the third daughter, has total responsibility for
feeding and taking care of the two youngest boys. Rani
is twelve. She stopped going to school two years ago so that she could be at
home to look after her siblings. For a child of her age, she has remarkable
competence and maturity — no doubt the result of the responsibility forced upon
her. Her older sister, Ramani, left school two years
ago at the age of fourteen to work as a domestic helper in the city, in order
to supplement the family income. When asked, Singam
replies that it is all right for the girls to leave school early and go to work
to help the family. Only one daughter remains in school now; she is nine years
of age. If the situation at home does not improve, she will have to follow in
the footsteps of her sisters.
Singam suggests one night that he would like to
marry again. We point out to him that he should first see to the well-being of
his present family before thinking of taking on added responsibilities. Singam is not convinced.
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Earlier,
despite his children's obvious lack of proper food and education, he said that,
according to Indian custom, it was good to have many children. We also ask Letchmi whether she has considered using a birth control
method. She admits that the nurse at the town clinic advised her to do so, but
she was afraid of "the operation" they would have to perform on her.
Besides, she could not possibly take leave for such an operation — it would
mean loss of income and a great deal of embarrassment to her. Letchmi's family means a lot to her; she would like to see
them healthy and happy but, given the economic and cultural difficulties that
persist, it will be a long, long time before Letchmi
or her daughters enjoy a truly happy life.
Notes
1.
The Malaysian ringgit (or
dollar) is worth about $ US 0.39. Thus, Letchmi's
monthly wage is $ US 47.