Part 2 — Analysis and Reflection

 

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Religions

 

“Not one of His best efforts”; world religions and women’s oppression

Hilda Saeed

 

Hilda Saeed of Pakistan presented a paper, here edited and abridged, on "How religion contributes to the oppression of women", at the 1985 WSCF Asia-Pacific regional women's meeting in Singapore.

 

I'd like to begin with these words from Elaine Morgan's book, The descent of woman:

According to the book of Genesis, God first created man. Woman was not only an afterthought, but an amenity. For close on 2000 years, this holy scripture was believed to justify her subordination and explain her inferiority, for even as a copy she was not a very good copy. There were differences. She was not one of His best efforts.

This male thinking has been furthered by male-defined research and "proof. Men have had a marvellous time "proving" female inferiority — via psychology, science, the theories of evolution, and religion.

Even the great philosopher Aristotle was of the opinion that "the female is a female by virtue of a certain lack of qualities: we should regard the female as afflicted with a natural defectiveness". St Thomas Aquinas, well known though he was for his saintliness, pronounced woman to be an "imperfect man" and an "incidental being". Faced with historical attitudes like these, it is no wonder that women were brainwashed into regarding themselves as inferior. The irony, however, is that women themselves have perpetuated these myths through the centuries.

Initially, the reproductive function of women proved to be a severely limiting factor in their progress, both in the west and in the east. Religion was easily interpreted in a patriarchal fashion, thereby placing the seal of divine approval on what was "right" — or not right — for women.

I shall attempt to summarise the attitudes of several religions towards women, and then discuss the present situation in Pakistan.

To an avowed feminist, a lot of the material contained in the holy books is confusing. There are exhortations to kindness and affection, but rights given with one hand are snatched away with the other. Through all of the world's major religions — faiths as diverse as Hinduism, Zoroastrianism, Judaism, Christianity and Islam — runs the common theme of women's

 

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"uncleanness" (the label for a simple biological function beyond any woman's control: the physiological promise of the ability to bear life). Examples of this exist in the Hindu Mahabharata and Bhagavad Gita, in the Jewish Torah, in the Bible and in the Koran. In each of them, a woman is regarded as unclean on certain days of the month, and following the birth of a child. She is considered a temptress by nature; if she swerves or departs from the path set out for her, she may be chastised.

With so much pressure on them, most women accepted their inferior status. The process towards the "downtroddenness' of women had begun; the words of each religion underwent translation and misinterpretation, resulting in new dogmas for womanhood. Men wrote the codes; mystical rituals assumed great importance. Wife became wives — property symbols. Even in the old testament tenth commandment — "thou shall not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor anything that is thy neighbour's" — the woman is classified with servants and cattle, possession. Women were offered for sale and exchange, were captured as the prize of battle winners, were sacrificed in rituals. Dignity was replaced with indignity. There occurred, finally, a denial of the personhood and humanity of woman.

Perhaps, if woman's production in areas other than child rearing and nurturing had been recognised, her story might have been different. But biology limited her: she was never able to choose her lot, choose to use her brain as a man could, without any shackles. Woman's place in society has always been one which men assign to her; she has never lived by her own rules. She has rarely been economically independent, except in matriarchal societies.

The monotheistic religions, in enunciating principles relating to the role and position of women, drew inspiration from patriarchal models of social organisation prevalent at that time. That, perhaps, explains an ambivalent attitude towards woman. At one moment, she is pure, unsullied and virtuous: the virgin Mary (Bible), "heaven lies at the feet of the mother" (Koran), the Brahmina (Hinduism). At the next, she is Eve, who tempts Adam and has him removed from the garden of Eden; she is the unclean one. Sexuality and conception belong to fallen women: the fact that the mother conceives in exactly the same way is conveniently overlooked.

Through this ambivalent, irrational argument, and by the force of misinterpreted religion, man succeeded in converting woman to both unpaid servant and loving companion. The "loving companion" bit came later. In earlier days, a father had absolute authority over, and the right to do as he wished with, his wives and daughters. The old testament recounts how Abraham banished his slave Hagar the Egyptian and her son to the desert. Polygamy was widely practised: David is known to have married many women; he also had a retinue of slaves and concubines. Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines. Even when polygamy was finally supplanted by monogamy as the norm for marriage, the dignity of woman was hedged with a thousand and one clauses.

The situation within a family is such that love — for the children, if not for the husband — is bound to creep in. Woman became, perforce or by

 

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choice, loving companion, with the blessings of society and religion. Laws and customs of each country reinforced this situation. The descent of woman was complete.

Traditional customs and religion are often so closely interwoven that it is difficult to judge where one leaves off and the other begins. In Hinduism, the system of classifying people into social castes according to work became, in religious terms, the basis for degrees of "cleanness" or "uncleanness". A woman, even of the cleanest and purest brahmin class, had her days of untouchability; among the harijans or untouchables, her position became lowest of the low. India's legal system enshrines complete equality for women; the country's former prime minister was a woman. But the forces of religion and culture govern the lifestyle of the average Indian. In India, widows were looked down upon; even their shadow was considered inauspicious. Small wonder that suttee (death by voluntary burning on the husband's funeral pyre) was regarded as a preferable alternative to living a less-than-half-life — even though the laws in the Mahabharata expressly forbade suttee. On the Indian subcontinent, many phrases and sayings in common usage reflect women's inferior status: she is "a burden"; "a daughter's place is really in her husband's home". Women's dependence on fathers and husbands led to the development of a dowry system.

Anthropological studies reveal that the most ancient deities were female. The elevation of women to the heights of goddesses shows that they were deeply honoured. In ancient cultures, name and inheritance were often matrilineal; it was the eldest daughter who inherited. The woman was economically important, occupied leadership roles, and headed religious rituals and ceremonies. How then did we get into this present mess?

The pattern probably began at the time of changeover from nomadic to settled lifestyles, when woman's reproductive role assumed paramount importance. From there it was but a short step to the indentification of land, women and children as men's private property. Men thereby deprived women of their prerogative to name children after themselves. Private property destroyed the foundations of matriarchal society, and relegated women to lives of subservience. Under these oppressive conditions, religion was bound to develop sexist overtones. Thus even "enlightened" people were unable to conceive of equality of men and women. Examples of sexism in Judaism, Christianity and Islam abound. While the Jewish Talmud was unavailable to me, these quotations from the Christian old testament are suitable illustrations of both Judaism and the roots of Christianity.

In Genesis 3:16, God says to the woman, "I will greatly multiply thy sorrow in thy conception; in sorrow shalt thou bring forth children and thy desire shalt be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee" (emphasis mine). Exodus 21:7 reads: "And if a man sell his daughter to be a maidservant she shall not go out as manservants do". And Leviticus 12:1-7:

And the Lord said unto Moses "Speak unto the children of Israel, saying, 'If a woman have conceived seed and born a man child then she shall be unclean seven days... but if she bear a maid child, she shall be unclean two weeks... and when the days of her purifying are fulfilled, she shall bring a burnt offering' ".

In the new testament, it is Paul who remains the most chauvinistic. For

 

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example, Ephesians 5:22: "Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord". And verses 25 and 26:

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it, that he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word . . . that it should be holy and without blemish.

— is the implication here that the man's action purifies the woman? Paul's first letter to Timothy 2:11 reads:

Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach nor usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but woman being deceived was in transgression.

Is this last verse male wishful thinking? Adam ate the fruit of his own free will — no one forced him to — so how could he be not deceived?

The Koran too, has similar passages; male superiority is upheld in many of its chapters. In the section on Sura al-Nisa (women), these words trouble most westerners:

And if ye fear ye shall not act with equity towards orphans of female sex, take in marriage of such other women as please you — two or three or four, and not more. But if ye fear that ye cannot act equitably towards so many, marry one only, or the slaves which ye have acquired.

Further,

A male shall have as much as the share of two females; but if they be females only, and above two in number, they shall have two-thirds part of what the deceased shall leave; and if there be one, she shall have half. [The remainder, under Sunni law, is for the male relatives.] . . . Men shall have pre-eminence above women, because of those advantages wherein God has caused the one of them to excel the other, and for that which they expend of their substance in maintaining their wives . . . But those [wives], whose perverseness ye shall be apprehensive of, rebuke; and remove them into separate apartments, and chastise them. But if they shall be obedient unto you, seek not an occasion of quarrel against them.

Al-Beidawi comments: "By this passage, Mohammedans are in plain terms allowed to beat their wives, in cases of stubborn disobedience; but not in a violent or dangerous manner".

According to many scholars, biblical and koranic statements like these should be viewed in the context to which they pertained. Shaykh Mustafa Al-Ghaylayni states in Islam: the essence of civilisation:

In pre-lslamic Arabia, a woman was treated like an animal in a man's possession. Her position and status were favoured over her. Her condition was such extreme hardship that no other people would surpass the Arabs in treating her with such humiliation and persecution. Moreover, the Arabs considered it an ill omen to have newborn daughters, so they resented them. The custom of killing a newborn girl was widespread. They would take her life by burying her alive. Girls were also sold for merchandise and exchanged for animals ... their birth was a permanent disgrace.

He also quotes the prophet Mohammed's sayings: "One good woman is better than a thousand improper men"; "women are more trustworthy and deserve to be better rewarded for their good deeds". And his last words:

Prayer... prayer... If any slaves are in your possession, do not burden them with what they are unable to do. Allah — Allah... of women. They are in your hands. You took them with God's trust.

 

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The veil is a powerful symbol of the place of women under fundamental Islam. Its significance is summed up in the Pakistani saying, “chaadar and caar divari” (“within your veil, within the four walls of your house”).

Photo: UNESCO.

 

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What has happened throughout the Arab and Muslim world is that the passages quoted above have taken precedence over all else. In this way, the progressive tradition within Islam has been limited. Christianity has also suffered under orthodoxy and rigidity, but has, to some extent, overcome it — due to different economic structures and higher rates of literacy. The Koran however, is far more significant to Muslims than the Bible is to Christians. Not only does it provide the canons of their faith; it is also the textbook of their ritual and the principle behind their civil law.

How have these teachings influenced present-day life? The agony for women the world over seems almost unending. (This is what prompted the United Nations to observe 1975-85 as the decade of women. If we have succeeded in highlighting some of women's problems, at least something has been achieved.) Throughout Muslim Africa and Arabia, religions and moral standards are geared to control women: she is the one to be crushed if morality is to be kept alive. A legitimate daughter is less important, less privileged, than a son. This attitude touches every feature of her life: throughout the east it is common to find that girls and women are more malnourished, more anaemic and less literate than men. The fear that a daughter may become a source of dishonour to her family is ever-present. Rules are such that a woman may not seek education outside her own country, drive a car, or give court evidence in the same way as a man. She must remain veiled in public, and generally live an unfulfilled life. Laws of inheritance, divorce and custody do not operate in her favour. Adultery is punishable by stoning to death.

In Sudan, the horrible practice of female circumcision, which dates back to the pre-Islamic era, still continues — in spite of the fact that many books quote the prophet Mohammed as being opposed to it. In some regions, only the clitoris is removed; in others, clitoris, labia majora and minora are all cut off, and the vaginal opening sewn up — to be re-opened slightly at marriage, and re-sewn at widowhood. All these are deliberate measures of subjugating women; they are all sanctioned by the ulama (religious leaders).

In Iran in 1906, "women were thought to have neither souls nor rights; it was thought that a doctrine granting them the vote would mean the downfall of Islam".1 Although other nations are making efforts to escape this kind of fallacious thinking, many scholars believe that, in Pakistan, the overall progressive inspiration of the Koran has been reduced to reactionary dogma, and exacerbated by feudalism and negative cultural attitudes towards women.

 

Islamic family laws — Pakistan

Pakistan is a country burdened by overpopulation, a lack of family planning, poverty, generally low nutrition and illiteracy ... all contribute to women's oppression. Specific laws which compound women's subservience govern the family:

Marriage under Islam is supposed to mean the joining in matrimony of male and female through consent. Registration of marriages takes place under the Muslim Family Laws Ordinance of 1961. Registration is

 

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compulsory; a column is provided in the form for stipulation of terms and conditions of the marriage contract. Legal age is 16 years for girls, 18 for boys. Pre-pubescent marriage is a punishable offence.

Divorce: here the chauvinism creeps in. The husband's unilateral utterance, three times, of standard words — talaq2 — signifies the end of a marriage. No reasons are required to be given — only service of notice to the wife under the ordinance, after 90 days of which the divorce becomes final. On the other hand, certain conditions — such as a husband's insanity, impotence or cruelty — must be satisfied before a wife can sue for dissolution of marriage. A woman may also sue for khula — deferment of the marriage tie.

Guardianship and custody: The father is the "natural" guardian of the person and property of a child from wedlock. Under Hanafi Suni law, a mother can get custody of a daughter until she reaches puberty; custody of a son runs up to the age of seven years. Under Shia law, the age limit for a daughter is seven years, and just two years for a son. The mother loses these rights if she is "immoral" or neglects the child. These age limits are based on neither Koran nor Hadith,3 but have been fixed by Muslim jurists. In Pakistan, there is case law to the effect that a woman's custody of a minor child above these ages is possible if it will be in the interests of the child's welfare.

"Illicit relations": The controversial Zina Ordinance has made fornication and adultery punishable offences. The koranic injunction is that four witnesses should have observed the act; however, convictions are often by way of tazir4, without the requisite witnesses. Sadly, it is the women who suffer most. A woman might become pregnant if she is a victim of circumstances or of rape, and can be convicted by the evidence of her pregnancy, whereas a man is often given the benefit of any doubt and goes free. This law needs a complete overhaul, especially as it puts zina on an equal footing with zina bil jabr5.

Inheritance: a wife or, if the marriage is polygamous, the wives inherit one-eighth of the husband's property. Legitimate children inherit as specified by Islamic jurisprudence. Illegitimate children supposedly inherit only from the mother; they are, however, usually abandoned. Adoption: There are several verses in the Koran urging the care of orphans. But a child does not acquire the right of inheritance from his or her Muslim foster parents.

Contraception is urgently needed. Many consider the low priority accorded to it to be the root cause of all Pakistan's problems. Abortion, even within 120 days, is not legal under Islamic law. In practice, religious orthodoxy has been responsible for unlimited childbirth and the poverty associated with it.

 

Koranic injunctions have given rise to laws of qisas and diyat (evidence and compensation) under which a woman's evidence is worth only half the weight of a man's, and compensation due to her upon injury is only half that paid to a man. There are still many people who insist that education for women contravenes Islamic tenets. The phrase "chaadar and chaar divari" ("within your veil, within the four walls of your house"), now in common parlance, is an appropriate indication of the place of women in Pakistan.

 

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Women are forbidden to watch spectator sports. If a woman is even suspected of adultery, her nose may be chopped off: worse still was a case where the woman's eyes were gouged out and an ear cut off. Last year, women were forced to march naked in the Nawabpur marketplace — not for any crime of their own, but because of a quarrel involving their male relatives. Last month a Christian couple was to be flogged in public for adultery, although such cases are supposedly governed by Christian, not Muslim, law.

The fight is an arduous one. A petition against the unjust evidence laws has now reached the Supreme Court; women's groups are running programmes in adult literacy, pre- and post-natal care and nutrition. Women began a campaign against the restrictions on women playing sport, and have been successful: our women will participate in the next Asiad. Hockey has become popular again, and one Pakistani woman is even playing in the Wimbledon tennis championships. We got a stay placed on the order for public flogging of the two Christians, and have started fighting for the couple in court.

I am no scholar of comparative religion, so please forgive any errors in my interpretations. I only know that I have grown up with, and still have, too many unanswered questions about why women are oppressed. The western woman has reached a stage where the fight for equality can be hers alone; in the third world, women's struggle is very much bound up with the common struggle for democracy, social justice or a better life. As an educated, Christian woman, I am able to have faith in spite of all the injustices I have discussed. But we must probe the past in order to realise a new status quo. I cannot believe that a just God would countenance such human inequality through any religion.

 

Notes

1.   Quoted in The Times, London, August 22, 1911.

2.   Talaq has a meaning akin to "I loose you".

3.   Hadith refers to the entire sacred tradition of Islam, not just that recorded in the Koran.

4.   Tazir appears to refer to a summary court process, under which an accused may be convicted on his or her own confession (this is not withdrawable), or on the statement of two witnesses, one of whom may even be a woman! According to some, the judge's knowledge of a transgression may even be sufficient.

5.   The exact significance of this distinction eludes the editor. Zina means simply "fornication"; zina bil jabr probably refers to rape, although it may mean "adultery". My thanks to Prue Walker, for researching the Islamic terms in this article.

 

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References

The Bible — authorised King James version.

The Koran — George Sale translation, with comments by Al-Beidawi.

Although the all Yousufi version is not quoted here, I have studied portions of

it and the sense is similar.

The second sex and The nature of the second sex, by Simone de Beauvoir.

The descent of woman, by Elaine Morgan.

Women in the Muslim world, edited by Lois Beck and Mikki Keddie.

The hidden face of Eve, by Nawal el Saadawi.

Women and Islam, edited by Azizah al Hibri.

Manushi Indian feminist magazine.

Newsletters from the Women's Action Forum, Karachi, Pakistan, and

Rasheda Patel, feminist lawyer, Pakistan.